How to stop people from "taking your wealth"
Often people ask me this query -Tonja, how will you stop someone from taking advantage of as
well as taking your precious wealth?
My answer isn't often met with great enthusiasm because I feel that NOBODY will take what
rightfully belongs to you. I am a firm believer that what exactly is meant for you is up to you and
you also don't need to "fight" to shield it.
I have faith that if you surrender for the process, circumstances can happen that you wish didn't
but they are there for your benefit.
The catch is believing that pain may be for your benefit, that's where trust is essential. When you
trust the Universe to provide precisely what is created for you, you trust it is to find the best
however it feels inside the moment.
The moment may simply be designed for one to grow, to find out, to be aware of, to get ready or
other number of reasons.
In my book Twist & Trust (by Tonja Demoff), I discuss this thorough.
Surrender doesn't mean sit back and do nothing, it implies allowing the task to unfold, do
whatever you feel could be the right thing without allowing your ego mind to consider over. Go in
your heart plus your soul and ask for the right action. Right Action may be the action that will
assist the greater good, develop a situation for that highest and best solution for everybody. Then
allow the Universe to look at over, setting moving what is to become.
An illustration from playing is:
I had been involved in legislation suit that ended very badly for me personally and to be hones no
better to the plaintiff. Each folks was economically harmed in many ways and neither has almost
anything to show for that numerous years of battle. I approached the plaintiff and extended my
was required to make experience and utilize it in a positive approach to help others appreciate
how such a thing can occur from to people have been once friends, partners and investors
Anyone declined the sale.
It did require her to go on video and answer some questions , be open, genuine and share her
frustrations, anger etc inside a format that could give others information that will help them avoid
that which you had experienced.
Instead she prefers to paint me in an extreme and outrageous negative light across social
networking. Her jealousy, bitterness, anger and hatred is one area that's with me. How I select to
handle it can be what shapes my experiences and just what I learn from the situation is what
shapes my character. That isn't to convey it hasn't hurt me, angered me, frustrated me etc since it
has. The point is that it has made me a stronger person, a person of more character, allowed me
to get weaker as it demonstrated humility in many "offshoots" of the situation if you'll. I am over I
used to be when it started and I'll become more than I used to be when it ends- some tips i
learned is always that I became always "more than I thought" I recently had to become it.
NOBODY will take what is owned by you their attempt can be your blessing!