The Best Ways to Keep a Conversation Going

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Guys, here's the bottom line: If you can't keep a conversation going, you can't be a badass with
women. The good news is... with consistent effort and practice, you can master this skill. Don't
worry if you don't have a natural "gift of gab." With consistent effort and practice over time, you
can get better results with women than your silver-tongued brethren. That's because you've
developed a core foundation of skills for any situation you'll encounter.

If you have multiple ways to sustain a conversation, it creates more curiosity in the mind of a
woman. She'll be thinking to herself: "I wonder what he's gonna say next?" This keeps her
guessing, and wards off the biggest enemy and attraction-killer for a woman: Boredom. You may
not be "The Most Interesting Man In The World" from the Dos Equis commercials, but you'll be a
lot more interesting than most guys who don't practice these conversation keys.

Let's get started - here are the top 5 ways to keep a conversation going:

1. Ask genuine, non-threatening questions
Most women are wary of PUA games, tactics or weird language from guys. If you try any of these
tricks and they aren't congruent with your personality, at the best you're probably off to a bad start
- and at the worst, she's mentally blown you off. The best way to set yourself apart from other
guys is to ask authentic questions... without an agenda or hidden motive. A woman needs to trust
and feel safe around you before she's willing to spend more time in a conversation. Real
badasses don't rely on canned lines, they have the confidence to express genuine opinions and
questions.

2. Observe and be perceptive
When you get in the habit of paying attention to your surroundings - people, places and things -
you'll almost never run out of things to say. It's a rare man who actually does this, and it's a very
attractive trait to women. Just make sure whatever you say is accurate and genuine, and you
don't have an agenda behind it. Women have built-in, finely-tuned BS detectors, and if she feels
you're not being truthful with her (or you're saying something just to get her into bed)... it's game
over, and you're done.

3. Don't let her see you sweat, keep it light
Most women spend a lot of time worrying about any number of topics. A guy who can keep her
mind off the worries of the world is someone she'll want to spend more time with. Big-screen
badasses like Clint Eastwood, Sylvester Stallone or John Wayne never looked worried, and were
able to handle whatever situations that came up. And they added an occasional dose of good
humor to show they were in control. A woman will follow your social lead, based on how you
come across and make her feel. Women like being around guys who make them feel safe and
secure - and you can do this by staying calm, cool and relaxed.

4. Be an active listener
One of the best ways to keep a conversation going isn't by being the smoothest talker, or

monopolizing the conversation - but instead, being the best listener. This may not come easily or
naturally to you at first - especially if you're an extrovert, or are nervous in social situations. Even
if you have to bite your tongue waiting for someone to finish their thought or ideas, do it. People
like other people who let them talk, and women will respect and appreciate you more. When you
practice being an active listener, you'll become more relaxed in all social situations.

5. Stay "present" and in the moment
As guys, we think about a lot of things: The idiot that cut us off in traffic... what time tonight's
game starts... or what band is playing this weekend - and we don't focus on the person or
situation right in front of us. We tend to be "up in our head," or nervous, thinking about what has
or might happen - or what an attractive woman might think of us. This mental chatter prevents you
from being truly focused on the person or conversation at hand. For women it's called being
"present," and it's absolutely HUGE.

A female friend of mine said: "Being present is EVERYTHING." This means you're truly engaged
in a conversation, contributing and giving genuine feedback. You aren't nodding like a bobble
head doll, or mindlessly saying "uh-huh" or "yeah" every so often. Women aren't fooled at all
when you do this. You'll appear lazy or apathetic, and she definitely won't think you're a badass.

Like anything, you'll have to put in time and effort to develop this skill - but the payoff in better
business and personal relationships is HUGE. It's the social equivalent of hitting a million-dollar
jackpot in Vegas.

Conversation is just one of the skills needed to be a Badass with women. If you try to learn these
skills and attitudes on your own without any guidance, you're in for a long, ego-bruising journey
(like I went through). Don't try and "re-invent the wheel" when it comes to your social life. I don't
believe in gimmicks, games or PUA tricks (which always fail in the long-run). I do believe in good,
solid information that can help you become the rare man who can attract - and keep - a quality
woman in your life. Check out the Tao of Badass book and members area, and give yourself the
well-deserved gift of great relationships with the opposite sex.

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